Connect the earlier writing about From Which Self Development Started? (Part 1) and (Part 2) Here I would like to discuss about what our goals are essentially the core of all things related to self development. Have you ever pondered what the purpose of our life in this world. When asked what the purpose of your life, then you will appear a variety of answers, among others: a brilliant career, had wanted to be a success, people want to be entrepreneurs, etc.
If you include this, here are a few tips that can help you to find where to start designing purpose.
Many people cannot plan a goal because they even have no idea of where to start. A lot of people working on something but could not get success, simply because the goal is less clear.
The objective is the elaboration will be achieved or produced within a certain period and are idealist and a strong desire to make changes towards a better, that will be the direction of the journey of life.
Sometimes people often misinterpreting between goals, dreams or hopes. We must distinguish between goal with dreams and hopes are nothing more than wishes. The desire was weak. The desire is strong when it is supported by the direction, determination, devotion, discipline and time limit. This is the difference between desires and goals. The goal is a dream with a deadline and a specific plan of action. Intended purpose could be worth or not worth. Kuatlah desire that turns dreams come true, not a hope.
How Determine Your Purpose :
The existence of a purpose of life make us the spirit of the work. We have the motivation and energy to run our daily life. The higher goal of our lives the greater our motivation. Conversely, the lower the target of our lives the less our motivation. Without a living target we will lose motivation; We lose the passion. Like a ship at sea without skipper, the direction of our lives it is not obvious how to get where.
- Contemplate. Contemplated in the most goal in what you want, try tanayakan in a State that is comfortable when you can actually have a conversation with yourself. to find your destination, take time to dream about what you most want, you want to like what or even about what you want to have.
- Write Down All Your Wishes. After getting all of the dreams you want, input all your wishes. Don't be afraid to write anything you want, no limits only you know yourself and what you want to achieve.
- Select The Most Appropriate Destination. After you are sure all recorded, it's time you think about whether that desire can be accomplished in a given time, whether to carry influence in your life, if it will make you happier than now. When this dream does not bring positive influence in your life, maybe should have been ruled out or you scratch your destination from the list, remember the purpose of good will bring a positive influence in the lives and can be measured estimated time of pencapaianya, so you have the motivation to pursue and achieve all of these goals, not just a fantasy.
- Create The Target Achievement. Once you are confident with the choice of destinations that you create. You think of harur how to grab it, the steps that you have to do, be sure not to overdo it in seeking to make it happen. You need management and motivation to mewujudkanya, create the target-small targer to do, write down the results you have been doing.
The existence of a purpose of life make us the spirit of the work. We have the motivation and energy to run our daily life. The higher goal of our lives the greater our motivation. Conversely, the lower the target of our lives the less our motivation. Without a living target we will lose motivation; We lose the passion. Like a ship at sea without skipper, the direction of our lives it is not obvious how to get where.
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